Emotions Unveiled: How You Might Feel During Your Wedding Appointment

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Emma Draper

By Emma Draper

18 July 2024

Planning a wedding is an emotional rollercoaster, and choosing your wedding dress is one of the most memorable parts of that journey. At LOVE, we understand that a bridal appointment is more than just trying on dresses—it’s a deeply personal and emotional experience.

We’ve seen it all – the joyful tears, the happy dances, the quiet moments of reflection, and even the occasional moment of overwhelm. Our team at LOVE is here to celebrate with you, ease any nerves, and provide the space and reassurance you need to take your own sweet time. We understand that finding “the one” isn’t just about the dress; it’s about the experience and the emotions that come with it.

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Here’s a breakdown of the classic emotions you might feel and how our independent boutique offers the perfect setting to embrace them all.

Turning Anticipation into Excitement

It’s natural to feel a sense of anticipation before your appointment. Questions like “Will I find the dress?” or “Will it look the way I imagined?” can create high expectations and cause pre-appointment jitters At LOVE, we transform this anticipation into excitement by offering a welcoming and relaxed atmosphere. For tips on what to expect, check out our guide to preparing for your appointment.

Creating Magical Moments

The moment you step into LOVE, the excitement begins. You’ve dreamed of this day for so long, and now it’s finally here. To make your experience even more special, we prepare a personalised welcome sign, sweet treats to enjoy, your chosen dresses steamed to perfection and the entire boutique is yours to enjoy.

Creating Comfort and Ease

Feeling a bit nervous is completely normal. Whether you’re worried about the fit, the style, or just the overall experience, we’re here to help. Our private and exclusive top-floor setting, shared only with your guests and your stylist, allows you to relax and feel comfortable throughout the appointment, ensuring you have the space and privacy to focus on finding your dream dress.

Celebrating Your Unique Beauty

It’s common to feel self-conscious about how a dress will look on you. Concerns like “Will it fit right?” or “Will it emphasise my boobs/bum/tummy/arms/back (delete as appropriate!)?” can arise. We all have our individual body issues, but rest assured our discreet bridal stylists are trained to not only guide you towards styles that show off your assets but also be patient and compassionate. We ensure you’re never dressing in the open and while removing your bra often works best for most dresses, it’s not obligatory. We’ll be guided by you and your comfort zone. For body confidence tips and to find the perfect dress for your shape, check out our blog here.

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Discovering Your Style with Curiosity

With so many beautiful dresses to choose from, it’s easy to feel a mix of curiosity and excitement. Our slow-paced appointments and level-headed stylists help you hone in on your style. We can talk you through customisation options if you like elements from more than one dress, ensuring you find a gown that feels uniquely yours.

Discovering a World of Choices

Trying on dresses can feel overwhelming with so many stunning options available. At LOVE, we recommend starting with just five dresses during your appointment to keep things manageable. We also encourage brides to do their research beforehand, as visiting too many boutiques can add to feelings of dress fatigue. For tips on kickstarting your dress search, including boutique research, check out our guide here.

Celebrating the Moment of Joy

The moment you find “the one” is unparalleled. That burst of joy when you look in the mirror and see yourself in the perfect dress is a feeling that can’t be beaten. At LOVE, we celebrate this joy with you, providing a supportive and congratulatory environment to share this special moment with your loved ones.

Reflecting and Gaining Clarity

Sometimes, while you’re experiencing ‘the moment’, a helpful guest might suggest “sleep on it,” and it can feel deflating. However well-meaning, this can trigger concerns such as, ‘they don’t like it’ or ‘they think it doesn’t suit me’ which can be crushing. Instead, view it as an opportunity to gain clarity – what does your gut tell you. Our recommendation is to do you research and arrive at your appointment prepared to say yes to the dress. While we’re not advocating rushing into a decision, you will never recreate that initial magical moment. If you know it’s the one, you know.

Finding Positivity in the Experience

Sometimes, despite high hopes, you may leave your appointment feeling disappointed because you didn’t get the feeling or find “the one.” It’s important to remember that this can happen and might mean you haven’t done enough research or perhaps you’ve done too much! Don’t fall into the trap of berating your figure or questioning your indecision. Instead, focus on the positives: what DID you like? Reflect on the advice your stylist gave you. What can you take away from this experience? Perhaps you found certain styles or details that you loved, even if you didn’t find the perfect dress yet. Use these insights to inform the next stage of your search, knowing that every step brings you closer to finding your dream dress.

Building the Perfect Bridal Look

Once you’ve found your dress, the excitement of building your perfect bridal look begins. At LOVE, we’re here to help you complete your ensemble with veils, accessories, and shoes. You’ve found your dress—now let’s perfect your look together! Stylist appointment anyone?

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Why Choose LOVE?

Our boutique offers a unique and personal experience that larger stores simply can’t match. From the moment you book your appointment, you’ll feel the difference. The private, intimate setting of our boutique, combined with our dedication to personalised service, makes LOVE the ideal place to embrace and express every emotion.

To learn more about what makes shopping at an independent boutique like ours so special, click here.

At LOVE, we welcome every emotion with open arms. We’re here to support you, celebrate with you, and provide the space and reassurance you need to find the dress of your dreams.